“When one speaks, while others are silent, this is not a conversation, but a lecture”. Does not interfere with time to remember this winged expression.
Hu and yet, what to talk about with your interlocutor? It depends on a lot and on where you met with him, and on your general culture, and from the ability to conduct a conversation, and, not least from mutual interests.
Give an exact scheme of how and what to say, of course, it is impossible, and, nevertheless, it is worth listening to some tips, if you want to be an interesting and living interlocutor.
What to talk about with your interlocutor
First of all, you need to speak the right language. You should cleanse your speech from such weeds as “you understand”, “means”, “so”, etc. D. From such words that are ugly as “gorgeous”, “damn”, “cool”, “amazing” and the like.
The conversation between strangers or those who have just met, especially difficult. The question “How are you?»In this case is not appropriate. It can be asked by people who know each other and have not seen each other for a long time. The conversation about the weather is undoubtedly not too original, and yet it is better than silence. You can also politely ask the profession of your interlocutor, his interests. If you do this unobtrusively, delicately, you can not be afraid that it will perceive it like curiosity on your part.
What to talk about with your interlocutor
Praise of appearance, taste, children of the interlocutor, etc., if they are not too exaggerated and do not sound false, they will always give him pleasure. A calm simple conversation, the ability to listen – these are the signs of education and respect for the interlocutor. Unknown to boast of your knowledge, successes, material security, expensive jewelry or outfits. Try not to make promises that you cannot fulfill.
While in the company, do not retire for a long time with one of the guests in order to tell him (if he is a doctor) about his migraine, or to clarify with him (if this is your and work colleague) some kind of official question that excites you.
What to talk about with your interlocutor
Do not talk in a whisper – someone might think that you are talking about him. Lead the conversation clearly and leisurely, without raising your voice and looking into the interlocutor in the eye. Do not look around at the same time to see who, what is busy or who passes by.
Do not start long conversations on the street or on the bus, as they will remain unfinished.
Do not rush to give an assessment to your interlocutor after one conversation with him. It is important not what people say, their deeds and actions are important.